Sandy, that’s encouraging! Your experience seems to reinforce the idea that a lot of the stress comes from our own worries and expectations, rather than what actually happens — although, as you say, the exhaustion that comes from keeping the little ones entertained is pretty comprehensive. Still, it amazes me that, actually, people on the plane are generally pretty nice and helpful.

Julie, I’m with you — or will be, some day. You have my sympathies!

Liz, thank you! My mother never took us flying (except in my grandfather’s little Cessna) until I was 14 and my sister 9. A Montana childhood was all about driving long distances, and I’m sure she went nuts sometimes, but we learned early on that we were expected to entertain ourselves. Guess that’s what I need to work on as John grows … and it *is* worth it, in the end.

From the time they were 7 flying became easier: they LOVE to travel, keep themselves amused, are polite to other travelers, and though they are so excited to be going somewhere and thus talk non-stop, I actually get to read a bit!